Alright here's another guy's perspective for you so you ladies will have a better understanding of us guys. When a girl and a guy are getting to know each other, there are usually 3 common things you will hear a girl say. Now none of these are good things to say but still they are used way to frequently. So if you're a girl, and i guarantee you say at least one of these, please stop saying these, they don't work.
1) "I GET ALONG WITH GUYS BETTER THEN GIRLS" now no guy ever wants to hear that. its basically stating that guys are constantly flirting with you and you are constantly flirting back. No guy wants to think that you go places with a bunch of dudes and hang out with them. and then we wonder why don't you get along with girls, is there some personality trait (insanity perhaps?) that we have yet to discover that you have? A guy wants a girl who has girl friends and preferably no guy friends at all. I know that's close to impossible to find but that's what we want.
2) "I AM EASY GOING OR NOT HIGH MAINTENANCE I AM NOT LIKE MOST GIRLS" just saying this makes you like most girls. trust me....you all say this. Let us determine that before you label yourself the greatest ever. and high maintenance in a girl is usually unknown by the person themselves. What if you are picky in where you like to eat, or don't like watching movies of a particular genre, or don't like your guy wearing certain brands or something, then guess what...your high maintenance!! Guys hate when a girl says this cause it makes us feel like you think we should be thankful we found someone "different". because honestly, sad to say, you probably are like most girls especially if you have said this line.
3) "I DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!" this one gets to me on a personal level, cause all women care what other people think, all people do in general actually. If you didn't you wouldn't be wearing the same brands, put on makeup, give you opinion on anything during a discussion and so forth. And to be honest we want a girl that does care what people thinks and admits this. I mean not to the point where it controls here but she has to be mildly concerned. That way she doesn't wear some crazy unattractive clothing on a date cause she is "comfortable" That way she doesn't start yelling at you in the middle of a movie theatre because you guys are fighting cause she doesn't care if people stare. Just stuff like that we don't want to happen. So trust me, we know you care what people think, we do too, and we both like it.
There you go girls, follow this and you are on your way and if you do use these three quotes, i am sorry but they need to be never used again and that's the Untold Truth!!
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